Today’s Perfect Moment is best friends, food, pool and  beer.

I don’t get together with my best friends nearly enough.   Tonight (Tuesday) was the exception.  We met for food and beer==we know who we are and we are definitely not part of the wine crowd.  We had a chance to discuss those thing that ate scratching at the back of our brains.

These topics included

work and its inability  to make us feel worthy.

chasing younger women despite the obstacles–this was me, but they were surprisingly non-judgemental.

family and the interesting challenges it provides

vacations

chasing women who are clearly not interested—me again….

our history together.

our bravery when we were younger

My best friends, though small in number, are exactly that.  My best friends are the people who actually listen to what I have to say and who actually have advice that can help me.  We definitely need to spend more time together.

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